As children begin to walk, many things change in their lives. Being able to control yourself before anything else, standing in balance and seeing that you can keep your body alive also increases your self-confidence. Thus, the “egocentric” period is the child’s step that we call the turn.
In this period the child is self-centered. Everything is mine … The world thinks that I’m turning around. As a result, conflict behaviors with parents also increase in this period.
Toilet Training in Infants
Baby’s toilet training, critical cycles of development such as sleep correspond to these ages. Especially toilet training.
The best time for toilet training in infants is 12 to 36 months. However, I can say with my experience that it is usually 24-36 months faster and accepts the child. In fact, this age range varies with each child. Some may take 12 months while others may take 36 months. The main thing here is the child’s readiness and the relationship with the parent.
The most sensitive point of this period is the coincidence of the child with the eccentric period. It can be really hard to teach a new thing to a child who starts walking. This turnaround in 2-year-old syndrome also forces the clarity of the authority line between mother and child. When you put rules on one side, there is a sensitivity that one side can not tolerate to crying. Excessive pressure to do in this period, trying to establish rules can cause serious problems in the child. Especially, they are also preparing for many behavior problems such as weak self-esteem, suppressing their emotions and excessive orderliness. In order to avoid these possible problems, children between 24-36 months should have plenty of sand games, pool and water, and have a bare foot running in the green nature. These activities will make him relax.
Knowledge, empathy and patience are essential in toilet training. If you can synthesize this trilogy correctly, it will not be hard for you to study toilet training. So let’s first learn about toilet training.
Before Toilet Training
Your decision to give your child toilet training is not a process like getting up one morning and saying “Let’s start toilet training this week.” It’s the toilet training period for your child, not you. For this reason you should decide whether or not he is ready for this training. If you follow your child correctly, they will give you the necessary tips.
If your child;
Especially when the toilet shows you are uncomfortable,
If the cloth can stay dry for at least 4 hours and the cloth is dry when it is in the morning,
When you go to the toilet you wonder if you are trying to figure out if you are looking inside the closet,
If you have begun to understand the difference between pee and poo,
If you feel uncomfortable about walking around with a wet or dirty cloth and are feeling uneasy about taking it out,
If at least you can lower your pants down,
At least pee, can use poetry, if at least can point to yada
Your child wants to study toilet.
Before starting toilet training,
Do not change house,
If a new sibling does not come,
To ensure that the spouses are not experiencing the divorce process,
Not to lose a very close one,
If your child is not experiencing a serious illness,
Be careful. If there is one or more of these, it will be useful if you delay your toilet training for a few months.
Do Not Do This During Training
Being in the process of punishment, prohibition and scare: Do not fall into this mistake. Do not make your child enemies with your own body.
Being hasty: This training can take in a week at 15 days .. Patience is necessary at this point. It does not indicate that the child has earned a healthy skill by winning the toilet training quickly.
Begin your child’s education without being ready for toilet training: one of the biggest mistakes. To force it without being ready.
Households’ agenda for toilet training: It is one of the mistakes that this subject is pronounced too much by the households, especially during toilet training. As much as possible, it is the healthiest of you to try to earn this training in the normal course of life, in its natural course.
Rewarding exaggeration: Do not overreact or over-reward when the child makes every mistake. In fact, when you say that you praise your child, you are expecting your child. Every time a child does not expect a big ceremony he will be disappointed.
To educate the child about the toilet: To start the toilet training immediately without giving the child the concept of toilet without pre-training. One of the biggest mistakes. First you need to improve your ability to identify, identify, and recognize.
Toilet Training in 7 Days
A small note: This planning is based on the environment in which the desired parental skills and attitudes are exhibited, with the requisite readiness before toilet training. Age, gender, character and environment of the child may prolong this process.
Emphasize the beauty of the bathroom. Get the panties that decorate the figures of the color-loving heroes. If necessary, you can also wear it over the cloth to encourage it in the first place. You can also wear these panties on your baby and your bearer.
Feedback about growing up. “How long has the neck been lengthened?” “Give me feedback like the clothes I bought for you are now tiny.”
You go in with a toilet every once in a while. Show me how you use the toilet. But describe it as a natural process, not as a form of teaching. Emphasize that the toilet is used by mothers, fathers, grandmothers, grandmothers, grandparents, everyone. Show me for the closet. Sifona press, ask for printing. So introduce it first. When your toilet comes in the same way, make moves that emphasize this.
Especially take the gold from the market, which is wet, changeable baby. It would be better if these babies had the same gender as your child. Do not stress this baby first. Even if possible mix it into your toys and wait for him to find it. Make him take care of you. Tell him how you pee when you drink water that is a baby. Then slowly you get tired of your baby cloth in your games and tell them you want to do a toilet. Make a little potty that belongs to him. As time goes on you watch your child take care of and play with the baby.
Get a pot for your child. Put this pot in your toys. Surprise. Be careful that there is a small, easy to control, portable potty. When you realize that you think you are growing up with him now, maybe you can make a toilet like yourself. In fact, tell the potty that you can paint, decorate or decorate with the protagonists of the cartoon heroes you want. If you are willing, go to the next step. If not, wait for a while. Try to emphasize the kettle intermittently, try not to notice and make willing. If your child does not want a potty, you can also use a ladder toilet.
After playing with the sympathy and desire for a children’s potty or toilet seat, first make playful experiments with your clothes. Sit in your own room. Watching television while playing with yada yada toys. The purpose is to adopt and start using ..
Start doing some activities on your toilet. For example, you can do watercolor work on the toilet. Ask him to do this activity by sitting on his bed. But that’s where it’s all done. I say watercolor but you can generalize with another activity here.
Take the closet together and throw it in when the bean pooh is done. Ask him to take a siphon. Ask him to look inside. You have to be careful not to emphasize cockatoo like disgusting, evil. Because the child perceives him as a part of him, he can translate the reaction of not generalizing this reaction and not wanting to do it.
In the meantime, increase your cloth-free hours. In fact, let them move around without cats. Say you can wear the panties you like if you like. Do not force it but offer it. Every once in a while a pee will run away. Meet normal and make him see. Most kids do not know how to do it when they make a piss. As he walks on foot and suddenly makes a pee, he follows him in an interesting way. Let it go. First you understand what you are.
Remind yourself of your needy pee or poop when you feel it coming. Remind him you can do it if you want. If you are courageous and do it, be sure to praise and encourage. When you first do it, emphasize how much you have grown and succeeded.
If you feel a sense of writhing, give the clues to tell you that you have to pee in your potty pussy. You can even run together and go to the playground. Listen quietly while you’re pissing. You can even encourage it by saying “shit ..” from the back fountain. Cheers and congratulations when you hear the pee voice.
Especially follow the body clock. Every body has an hour. Determine how many hours you have done. And increase your warnings in between.
Your child may go running early in the day, saying that the first time has come, but the peach may not have come. that maturity will develop over time, so this is not the first time you have run. Let’s see if I can wait for the next time and let him continue playing. Sometimes he can escape to the game by diving into the television. Make sure you relax by saying that you can have small accidents without exaggerating these situations and that you are such a small accident.
It develops more rapidly than weeping cocoons in particular. However, some children are afraid of kaka and keep themselves to not do it again. At that time, chronic constipation is returning to the state of childlessness. For this reason, especially when you are afraid to do it, do not resist, do not give too much inspiration and do not force it. You can even say it might be. Say you expect him to be ready. In this case, it would be beneficial to feed the bowel softeners and the foods that soften the kakay. However, in this regard, an expert doctor should be consulted and act accordingly.
Be patient with the night training can take time. Once you have gained the daytime toilet habit, you can start practicing slowly at night. At the first stage, the nylon can be placed under the bed and the nylon can be placed on the bottom soaking cloth. By following the body clock again, the toilet is removed at specific time intervals. Drying times at night are extended. If your child tells you that you have gotten up and coming to the toilet, then you have often gained this training. But make sure you do not get as much fluid as possible at night.
If I say that my child is rejecting toilet training,
Do not force it. If you can, move the process without feeling too much. But if you have taken a course in education, extend the process of promoting toilet training. Support the win in the natural environment. If you are having a hard time get an absolutely expert pedagogical view.
If you say you are very scared to do your trick,
It’s a normal reaction. He thinks that a piece of his body has gone off while he is doing the child’s trick. After that, he worries that his arm, his leg, may also go. Do not respond. Do not give me suggestions like no fear. Describe Kakan’s physiology. Ask them to think that your trash is trash, and think the toilet is like a trash can. Especially let him see his bedspread. And make sure he throws a croquet in his bucket.
If you are saying that you are only doing certain zones (such as a couch, behind the seat)
It’s a common occurrence. Do not panic. Do not forget the trust .. In time will gradually go to the closet. Be patient.